MORE WAITING FOR MY GROOM!
I WANT PATIENCE AND I WANT IT NOW!
My husband got permission to get out of that war zone at the end of July. He should have been here by now, but the papers sent from Canada to the Canadian Consulate in Pakistan (He's working near Afghanistan/Pakistan border) GOT LOST IN THE MAIL!!! So now it has been 6 weeks.
I'm sure the reason for the delay will be made known to us soon, but wow I am frustrated AGAIN! The post office is trying to trace the important government documents, and I asked the Consulate if I should just send them again, and I was told absolutely not, because if both sets of paperwork get to them, it will cause massive delays due to the confusion.
One good thing is that it has given me time to do the very long list of things that need doing, when I can. I can only do 1-2 of these tasks a day, then my strength is gone..but lately I am pushing myself to do more because I know my energy will have to be increased just to be with another person 24 hours a day, so I'd better get used to it. I've tried to hire help, with no luck. Will keep trying.
The Canadian government has so few people working for it, that it seems EVERY STEP is painfully, cruelly slow!
YEARS AGO when we first asked for my husband to get help to get out of his position in the war zone because of his family here having multiple hardships, (he is a civilian working there, so had NO rights, and pretty much was being kept there against his will), I often thought that all 3 of us in this house, who have been deemed "terminal" would all pass away before the paperwork even got to the point where we would be able to talk to a judge about it. It was close. Dad had recently passed, Mom was critically ill in the hospital, and I was like a walking zombie when we got the call for me to go to another city to see the judge.
I just know beyond any doubt that there is a purpose for us to be together, and he is a VERY patient man, so we will deal with all things with God's help. Wow, what a whopper of a task I have taken on with no strength. I guess in due time it will be a testimony of the strength the Lord gives to those who have none of their own.
The Taliban are still in his city, there are still bombs and killings and things that I dare not mention here because I think no human ears or eyes should have to be exposed to such ugliness, still curfews where they have to stay inside for days, still hearing machine guns and bombs as we work online on webcam...still worrying about his life, but deep down I know he HAS been protected and will continue to be protected. I am amazed how stable he stays and how well he keeps working despite his week of loss.
Well, back to work. I am sure the Lord will help me get most of my jobs done. I am leaving a lot for when he gets here, so he can feel like he is helping to make this HIS home as well, and can feel useful.
Thanks for your patience with me when I have none. lol.
Your friend, Sheila
Yes, let us leave everything to the tender mercy of the Lord. We become strong because of the strength of the Lord. We must have a living faith in these trying times. We just have to trust Him that He will do the best for all of us. I know your husband is protected by the Lord. I will pray that his papers will be found soon so that he can proceed to go to Canada. I am also praying for the continued health of all of you. Thanks for the post. God bless you always.
Mel Avila Alarilla said... Sat Sept 12, 01:38:00 am GMT-6
He is in control. That's all we need to know, ya.
You are a pillar of strength, Sheila. Keep it up.
May God continue to bless and protect you and your husband and your family.
.. And Patience, you have plenty of!! There is none that I know who have as ample as you!
tuti said... Sat Sept 12, 07:55:00 am GMT-6
Blessings my friend, my heart aches for you and I can certainly empathize with your situation.
In terms of getting help, what kind of help exactly? PSW? or maid? for the former you can try going through agencies and for the latter you can check out Molly Maid, hopeful they will be cost effective. If all else fails tap into your own resources and put the word out that you looking for help, word to mouth is always good.
I hope your husband comes home to you soon. Sometimes in life we are forced to just WAIT, boy is it maddening. He will be home soon, keep the faith.
Have a great weekend and stay blessed.
p.s.
Please do not overwork yourself that will only compound the problem of your health. One day at a time.
Rhapsody Phoenix said... Sat Sept 12, 09:41:00 am GMT-6
Hey Sheila,
Take it from someone intimately acquainted with trials:
http://sitahenderson.blogspot.com/2009/09/not-you-nor-friendonly-god.html
..no one says it quite like Spurgeon...May you rest in His loving sovereignty..
Love, Sita
Sita said... Sat Sept 12, 10:17:00 am GMT-6
Hi Sheila:)
Greetings:)
You have crossed so many hurdles and it looks like you have to cross a few more. I agree it is frustrating but what can be done other than to wait patiently. Your trust and faith in God will carry you through. My best wishes and prayers are with you and your family.
Your photos are just great. They speak for themselves.
God bless you Sheila and bring your husband safely without any further delay.
Joseph
Joseph Pulikotil said... Sat Sept 12, 10:58:00 am GMT-6
Gosh, my friends are mmore precious than any jewels or riches, and I wouldn't trade you. Hugs to all!
Sheila
Bluebirdy said... Sat Sept 12, 07:56:00 pm GMT-6
Wow, Sheila, is it my imagination or are you that little girl in overalls? I can just see that sparkle in your eyes...and thanks for being so positive, keep your face to the sunshine, I know it's a daily challenge--you're getting there, for sure!
Yes said... Thu Oct 01, 07:53:00 pm GMT-6
Aww firebird that's so sweet that you think that ornament resembles me! Thanks for the reminder and encouragement. We do need to be reminded of these things! Hugs, Sheila
Bluebirdy said... Thu Oct 01, 08:08:00 pm GMT-6
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