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Thursday, 15 May 2014



Earning Money at Home

When we get sick, or become a caregiver to someone, we often can only work from home. I have always done this. Always 3 jobs at a time until the last 5 years or so, when I got too busy with caregiving and my own health problems to even work from home. Here is the research I did to find LEGITIMATE work at home. I hope this information helps someone else.

I admit that this article is not as perfectly organized or well written as I am capable of, but so many people are asking me for the information ASAP, that I have gleaned over the years, that this is what I have right now. I will probably edit and improve it over time. I have put in red the different categories or jobs that you could consider.
 

The number 1 rule for at home jobs, if they ask for money, it’s a scam. Often they say it`s for processing fees or for materials or to guarantee you a spot for the job when there are many applicants. Don`t pay for that! There is only one exception to this rule. There are a few agencies for freelance jobs online. They charge a fee if you get the job. They charge it AFTER you get the project. Don’t work for them if they ask for a fee before you are hired by the client for a project. Only pay a fee for a job if the job pays enough to cover the fee and give you a lot left over. For example, if you have been hired to write an article about low budget travel in a certain city, and the pay they offer is $25, but the fee that the agency charges is $15, it may not be worth it to you. (You can decide if it’s worth it or not). But if the job/project offers more than $100, the $15 fee might be worth it. I have only done a few projects where I am required to pay a fee. I have found websites where there is no such fee.
This is important. Learn how to spot a scam home job.

It will be a part time job just to search out projects if you decide to do freelancing in your area of expertise, but that`s part of the nature of freelancing. You can also choose to look for a job with a particular company, where you won’t have to search for projects, you just do the work you are given and are paid by one company.

Getting Paid:
I have found that people usually pay promptly and honestly as you finish the project. I have only been ``Stiffed`` about 3 times in 11 years. You can discuss with the client how to get paid, whether by bank wire or PayPal or Western Union or Moneybookers or other online banking sites. The lesser known sites will be harder for you to get paid. The big and reputable companies, where more clients will have accounts are the better choices. People are leery of Western Union, and it seems unprofessional to get paid that way, so most choose an online banking service such as PayPal or Moneybookers. Western Union can be used if there is absolutely no other way to get paid and if the client agrees, but there is little to no way to follow up for demanding payment if you use Western Union. An online banking service shows more credibility, stability and professionalism than Western Union. It would be good to open an account at PayPal if you are in N. America, and Moneybookers if you are somewhere else. It is secure like a bank, and this way you don't have to give out your bank account information to strangers, and when you decide to buy things online, you don't have to give your credit card number to strangers. They are insured like a bank, but they do charge a small fee for each transaction.

There are some large companies that pay at the end of the month, so ask their payment terms when you apply for a project. Keep very good, very detailed records of the projects you did, and for whom, and the date and the price they owe you, when you got paid, or when the payment is expected (when they agreed to pay you) so you can remind people for payment if necessary. PayPal even has an invoicing service so that you can send clients an invoice from PayPal (looks very professional).

Many of these websites are for writing, but also there are some where people want a world of variety of projects, for example someone to finish a craft they started. Sometimes sewing or embroidery, sewing, sometimes woodwork or metal work, models, and so much more. Some sites are looking for photos you can take with your digital camera or just your smartphone. Babies, pets, scenery, Everyday life photos, architecture of your area, the list is endless. To find the photography jobs, Google “freelance photography projects” and “freelance photography jobs”.

Artists and those with computer skills such as code writers, computer graphics, site developers, often can get a lot of online work.

Many of these sites are project websites where you apply for one project at a time.
An article telling you how most freelance job sites work.

This article has more good suggestions. make money without spending a dime.

How does helium network work?


If it has a star * beside it, it also has many other types of freelance projects, not just writing.
www.elance.com (I have worked here) *

www.triond.com (they work with a dozen other online writing sites that are constantly looking for articles for magazines or for big corporations, or just someone asking you to research a subject for them for various reasons.)

article-how you earn money at Triond- http://www.triond.com/info/how-it-works


IF you are an expert in English, if you can spell, know how to use punctuation correctly, how to spot mistakes easily, you may qualify as a proofreader or editor. This is the work I do. These 2 sites ask for your help in polishing up documents that have been translated into imperfect English, then you make it ‘native tongue professional.” This often includes asking the client what he or she meant in different spots, and offering alternatives. I enjoy that communication. The best places to get work for that are www.translatorscafe.com and www.proz.com . Register there (don’t need to pay the registration fee, I never have), and sign up for the English to English option, and sign up for the emails so you can be notified when someone wants a proofreader. You are not charged a fee for projects from these 2 sites.

If you would rather do proofreading on manuscripts or University students’ papers, those jobs can be found on the many websites I've shared below.

If you feel  bit rusty on your grammar and spelling and punctuation, you can look up any subject online. Just Google “Proper use of quotation marks” or “when do I use a comma” or whatever you are wondering about. I often see “Grammar Girl” when searching for these things. I like her answers. Quick and to the point without the ramblings of an English professor. The saying “You don’t know what you don’t know” is so true. Often when reading about basic proper English, you learn something you've been doing wrong all your life, that no one told you the right way to do it, so the more you read ad study websites for grammar and correct English, the better your skills will get.

You can also Google “practice proofreading tests” to sharpen your skills. There is a proofreading program built into WORD and other word processors that you can learn in just a minute or 2 by clicking the question mark in WORD (the help button), or I can also tell you how it works.

If you speak another language perfectly, you can also sign up as a translator at those sites. The tradition is that whatever language you want to translate TO, you must be a native speaker of that language. If you want to translate from English into Italian, you must have Italian as your first language. If you want to translate from Italian into English, English must be your mother tongue. If you have used both languages equally, you are even luckier. You can post that you translate English>Italian AND Italian>English.  You can also Google “translation websites” and offer your services as an English proofreader, or translator to various translation companies. Proz.com and translatorscafe.com and translatorspub.com are great sites to get emailed when there are projects in your preferred language pair. This is how my business partner and I got so many customers that we are too busy to take on new clients. When a client likes your work, he will be loyal to you and bring you repeat work again and again. I have one client who was our very first project in 2003, and we still work for them regularly today. 

My ex MIL did data entry for UPS from home. Here's the job search page from UPS. https://ups.managehr.com/careers.htm Possibly other couriers use home employed data entry also.

An article about Legitimate data entry jobs
Also Google “data entry at home jobs”

I had friends who took a 2 week course at a trade school to learn how to do medical transcription. They worked for local doctors, which is more trustworthy than an online stranger. The Dr. reads his notes into a digital recorder, the recording is sent to you by email, you type up what is being said and return it by email. you must have a good working knowledge of medical terms and a good medical spelling book, and pharmaceutical spelling book. 

If you love reading, you can write a letter about how you love reading and would love to review manuscripts (books before they are published), then you can research publishers online and go to their “contact us” section, and ask if they hire reviewers or proofreaders who work from home, and include your letter in the inquiry. I did this for 7 years.

Internet Research for pay
Often people who are writing novels need someone to do some research, or lawyers or corporations need a speedy researcher who can help them find information on a subject, and you summarize it for them, saving them energy, time and frustration. I have done research for people for years. I am considering doing it professionally. You can even take an online course and get a certificate for it, making yourself more credible and worthy of higher pay. Many of the links above also have research projects. You can Google “Internet research jobs” and a good variety of sites comes up, including this helpful article on how to become an internet researcher.

Teaching English As Second Language:
I did this for at least 4 years. My clients were one on one, through a messenger such as Skype or Yahoo. You can just casually chat with them using the many translation tools online at the same time, for example, you can look up how to say many phrases and words in any language, then type it into messenger and tell them the English word/term. Some prefer to teach about 4 people all at once on conference chat on Skype, and to have a pre-set curriculum and homework and homework for the students. All of these curriculum ideas are available online as well. You and the client agree on a price per hour, and the method of payment. Keep in mind that most of the world’s economy is much less than North America’s economy, so if your client is from South America or a third world country, their fee will be much less than if you are teaching someone in  a developed European country or living in N. America but doesn't know the language yet. I have developed lifelong friendships with these clients, but you can also make it more professional if you wish. What’s great is that you pick up a lot of THEIR language at the same time! Many do this for free. There is even a website that is just a worldwide chat room where people go to try to talk to people of another language to learn more.
Here are pages of help for English teaching if you want to try this job. http://bit.ly/1g9Umq9 . If you speak another language, you can also teach that language online. You CAN get certified as an ESL teacher if you want to do that, but it`s not necessary. I just seemed to grow a friendship as I helped the client learn English. I didn't get into the intense scholastic type training. The former link has sites where you can get certified if you wish to do so.  

Selling Items on EBay or Etsy:
You can sell items from around your house, items you have made, or you can buy items at wholesale prices and sell them for retail prices and make a profit. I have done a bit of this many years ago, but it was not for me since I can`t get to the post office due to illness.

Many people are making a good living doing Life Coaching, Counseling, spiritual guidance, astrology guidance and other spiritual and mental help to clients online.

You can even do physical exercise training online. You and the client exercise in front of your webcam, eliminating the fear of strangers coming to your home, the embarrassment of going to a public gym, and this area is growing at a huge rate. This could be helpful for people with limited health who can`t do the regular exercises. They could be taught modified exercises for their specific limitation. There is some liability here though, you need to be bonded and have some training in what you are coaching, or have them sign a release that would keep you from being blamed for injury.

If you are not interested in earning money online, you can do things such as babysitting or elderly care, (taking an elderly person into your home during the day), or house sitting, (taking care of a vacationer`s newspapers and pets and yard work while they are away). You can take in ironing, bake pies or cupcakes for local restaurants, the ideas are as varied as people are. Find your interest and research how to make money with what talent you love doing.

I will add more as I learn more, and any LEGITIMATE work at home ideas you have (except multi-level marketing) are welcome in the comments. There are just too many MLMs to start listing them in the comments. 
Thanks 

Don't give up too soon. For a while, it may be a part time job to seek out projects, but after you are established in a few places, the work may come in by itself. As long as there is life, there is hope.
Best wishes in your endeavors.

Wednesday, 30 October 2013

I Thanked God For My Trash Today!!

    I am in the habit of counting my blessings and thanking God for them daily. Today while I was crying in exhaustion and emptying my garbage, I surprisingly found myself noticing the items in the garbage and being grateful for them, and being grateful that I live in these days of convenience, if I have to be sick.
    I looked at the milk carton and was grateful that I didn't have to milk the cow myself and make the dairy products myself.
    I saw the empty insulin bottle and was grateful for modern medicines that keep us alive and improve our quality of life.
    I saw the CD cover and was so grateful to live in the age of Internet, where I can stay home but still have friends worldwide, find people who I can learn from, and even earn a living from home.
   I saw the TV guide part of the newspaper and was grateful for a TV for entertainment any time I want, and company when I'm alone, and distraction from my pain.
    I saw the empty herb bottle and was so grateful for natural medicine that  I didn't have to go find the herbs in the fields myself. I’d love to if I had the strength, but I don’t.
    I saw a frozen meal container, and was grateful that those exist for when I am too weak to cook.
    I saw the banana peeling, and was grateful that we get so many different kinds of produce shipped to us, year round! It was not that long ago that even getting an orange at Christmas was considered a real luxury.
    I saw the toilet paper roll and OH HOW GRATEFUL I am for indoor plumbing! Especially in winter.
    I saw the light bulb, and I’m oh so grateful for indoor lights/electricity. Even my mother didn't have that until she was a teenager. She was so allergic to the kerosene lamps and the horse she road to school each day.
    Even the garbage bag made me grateful for trash pickup, so that the trash doesn't build up in my yard.
    I stopped crying and thanked the Lord, realizing that if I had to be so ill, this is certainly the best age to live in. With drive-through banks and so many other conveniences,it makes things that are already very difficult to be easier. I think of people who lived even 50+ years ago, and think of how hard it would be for them to survive and raise a family if they were homebound. Of course it’s still hard, and even with the conveniences, I can barely function, but with the washer and dryer and microwave and dishwasher, I am able to be much more independent than if I had lived 50-100 years ago and had this illness. I have a real sympathy for my ancestors who also lived with lupus in such trying times. My great uncle died in his 50s from what the local Dr. called “rheumatism with internal involvement”, which I think was a bad case of fibromyalgia, which also affects internal organs and endocrine and nervous system. Auto-immune diseases go back quite a few generations in my family. So I give them so much credit, and I’m almost ashamed of how weak I must appear to them, watching down on their family from above.
    We take so much for granted, just trying to get through each hour, each day, but at this moment, I want the Lord to know that I take nothing for granted. I am grateful for all my blessings. Especially for being born in the country I was (Canada) where women can say and think and do anything they can dream of, and not be sold off as child brides and not become only second class citizens, as in almost half the world.
Thank You Lord!


Monday, 27 August 2012

THE SILVERSMITH

THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE STORIES THAT EXPLAINS WHY WE SUFFER.

 
      This verse puzzled some women in a Bible study and they wondered what this statement meant about the character and nature of God. One of the women offered to find out the process of refining silver and get back to the group at their next Bible Study. That week, the woman called a silversmith and made an appointment to watch him at work. She didn't mention anything about the reason for her interest beyond her curiosity about the process of refining silver. As she watched the silversmith, he held a piece of silver over the fire and let it heat up. He explained that in refining silver, one needed to hold the silver in the middle of the fire where the flames were hottest as to burn away all the impurities. The woman thought about God holding us in such a hot spot;then she thought again about the verse that says: "He sits as a refiner and purifier of silver." She asked the silversmith if it was true that he had to sit there in front of the fire the whole time the silver was being refined. The man answered that yes, he not only had to sit there holding the silver, but he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire. If the silver was left a moment too long in the flames, it would be destroyed. The woman was silent for a moment. Then she asked the silversmith, "How do you know when the silver is fully refined?" He smiled at her and answered, "Oh, that's easy -- when I see my image in it." If today you are feeling the heat of the fire, remember that God has his eye on you and will keep watching you until He sees His image in you. Pass this on right now. This very moment, someone needs to know that God is watching over them. And, whatever they're going through, they'll be a better person in the end.
      -author unknown
 

Friday, 24 August 2012

OH NO!!

I was deleting old drafts, and the "posts" page popped up, and I deleted a couple of posts!!! SO FRUSTRATING! It took all the strength I had to make that post yesterday or the day before. It was the one about what we can learn from suffering and trials. Oh man! FIVE of them are gone. Oh well... Everything happens for a reason.
*sigh*.

Thursday, 23 August 2012

My Absence

He who dwells in the shelter of the most high will
rest in the shadow of the Almighty. –Psalm 91:04
 
 
Hello friends,

I’m sorry I’ve only posted 2 posts in 1 year. My health got much worse, which affected my concentration, so I am no longer able to think like I used to. I part of each day semi-conscious due to various health problems, and even my vision changes from hour to hour.

However, through it all, I am at peace, more than any other time in my life. I feel the Lord near. I feel His guidance, His whispers, His comforts through the Holy Ghost. I am most blessed!! Depression and anxiety are gone. I get frustrated now and then, but not a true clinical depression.

In January I went through a divorce. I tried for 8 years to get permission for my husband to immigrate to Canada. Why it took 8 years, will never make sense to me. It was only a few years that we realized that this marriage would not work out. I had become too sick to help him in every way a wife helps a husband, and to help him adapt to a whole new culture. We wanted to stop the immigration process earlier, but we weren’t allowed to, unless we claimed that one of us committed marriage fraud, which would mean jail. So we just kept going through the torment of paperwork over and over and over, and the emotional turmoil involved. The Dr. suspected that a lot of my heart problems came from the immigration stress for so many years. When we learned that hubby would not even be allowed a visitor’s visa, and I’m too sick to go to another country, we decided it’s best if we broke it off, to give hubby a chance to fall in love and have a normal marriage with children.

In February I had a head injury that has also caused problems. They called it a mild TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury), with post-concussion syndrome.

In April a Dr. told me I need a heart transplant, so I guess one of the big problems with my brain is not enough blood getting to it. I won’t be getting the heart transplant. I don’t qualify for the transplant list, because I have other organs that are failing; and because lupus would attack the new heart too. Even if my health was better, I’ve been told that in Canada, (or possibly just my province) people who are on disability don’t qualify, because the gov’t doesn’t spend large amounts on us. I was denied a pacemaker/internal defibrillator a number of years ago. I am not a bit scared though, because every time my heart has stopped, if there wasn’t a medical person around to restart it, God would restart it, and He will continue to do so until my purpose is finished for being kept alive.

I’ve missed the blogging community, and I’ve lost a lot of friends because I was not strong enough to keep up with email replies. I’m hoping I can attend to my blog more often, but I might be using a lot of pictures rather than a lot of writing. I’ll do what I can. Thanks to those of you who have kept in touch with me through all of this. I hope to be able to start blog-hopping again.
May the Lord bless you as He has blessed me!



Wednesday, 21 December 2011

Struggles, But Protected by Angels





I’m struggling, but also I have felt like I was surrounded by angels' protection twice in 4 days. Went unconscious for 24 hours, then 2 days later, had blood sugar so high it usually stops a person’s heart, so passed out again before I could call 911. Mom is pretty much bedridden with bleeding and peeling and terribly painful feet, no Dr. knows the answer, so I’m trying to do more for her, when I can't do much at all. We have prayed and found a few helpful items, but no cure. I have had 4 organs go into partial failure, adding to 3 others that have been bad for many years. I am on medicines for 3 of those organs. One organ is my pancreas, so last week I was put on insulin. I had to take 9 pokes a day, (5 injections and 4 tests daily) then I got allergic to one of the insulins, so I had to add 3 allergy injections a day. Then I found out I was allergic to the allergy shot too, which made me go unconscious, so when I woke up the next day I told the Dr. I wouldn’t take that again. She said my life is in danger without that insulin, but it’s in worse danger with the allergies, so she’s concerned. Today I’m still having chest pain from the dangerously high blood sugar yesterday, but this too shall pass. It feels like I will stay alive no matter how many things go wrong with me, so I will just be expected to keep movng even with many organs failing. Eagerly awaiting the Lord's coming.

Before last week, I was very hopeful, because one of the medicines for one of the organs started making me think so much clearer and brought back my memory and I thought I had a new chance at life. But as always, whenever one thing gets corrected, lupus has to cause 3 other problems to prevent any advancement toward health. It’s discouraging, but I have the Lord, and He is my comfort and my strength.

I wish everyone could feel the peace and comfort I feel, even through pain and severe weakness.

Bless you all,
Sheila

Monday, 11 July 2011

ADAPTATION & ADJUSTMENT




Chameleons are so amazing. If you go to youtube and look at videos of them, they can hide in front of things that have many colors, even patterned fabric. They have been created with natural ability to adapt to every circumstance. The camoflage is for their protection.

Humans seem to have been able to adapt to so many changes of climate and lifestyle and disaster and change in income, change in family size when new babies come. It seems that one of the few things a body never adapts to, or get used to, is pain. I have had worsening pain since age 15. If a person lives that long with almost any other situation, they would adapt to that. Why do our bodies never adjust to pain? There are so many other health problems that come with long-term pain, which create more things to adjust to, while becoming more physically weakened, with less ability to be strong enough to adjust.

I have studies natural remedies for all my conditions, but now I need to study natural remedies for Multiple Sclerosis.

My mind and body is changing so fast, it's frightening. Things that used to take me 1 hour to write or do, now take 3 hours, and I don't have the strength to do much of anything. 10 constant symptoms at once while trying to do everything for Mom makes me spend progressively more time doubled up in pain every day. Like I said in post below, that has benefits for Mom, but I am not adjusting to this!

If any of you can find any uplifting thoughts or scriptures about adapting to unbearable circumstances, I would appreciate reading them so very much.

Thanks!



















Tuesday, 5 July 2011

A Benefit from Frustrations






Hello my friends. About 2 days ago, I noticed that during the number of hours that I can't move or think or talk, my Mom gets up more, and gets her own ice and drinks. My periods of uselessness help her to slowly increase her strength, and since my down hours are progressively increasing, her strength is also progressively increasing


It frustrates me that with my fibrofog, and forgetting due to trigeminal neuralgia attacks, that I have to keep reminding myself of the encouragement from the scriptures. I should remember these things! I guess that's why the Lord sent me such wise and patient
friends to remind me. Thank you all.




IF GOD SENDS A STORM, HE WILL ALSO STEER THE VESSEL.


Friday, 1 July 2011

HAPPY CANADA DAY!

Today would also be Princess Diana's 50th birthday. There is a very nice article and pictures commemorating her life @ http://bit.ly/lb9EES. Some people have said I looked like her sister as a teenager. Pic on left is me @ age 16.




Susie D. I'm not sure if you know how blogs work yet, but if you click on "3 comments" under the Wheelchair fiasco story, you will see where I replied to you. I will also reply to your kind words @ http://www.lifewithlupus.org/ . (Yes that WAS a plug for anyone with lupus. Great support group.) There needs to be a support group for people with multiple illnesses, because when we are suffering but don't know which disease is causing the problem, we just avoid them all. Some of what I wrote to you will be used in this update.


I kind of shocked myself to see that I have not posted for a week, when so much has happened each day. Since Mom came home, (June 20) I have been so rushed off my feet, or else crashing in pain, so I have not had the concentration or strength to think of what to say here. Today I am stuck in bed pretty much, except for a couple of crises that came up and needed my help, and doing laundry. Even on days I can barely move, urgent things happen or need doing.



The nurse came for her half hour this week. She will come again on Tuesday, as will the high school girl I hired for some housework and errands. So I am thankful for what little time they can spare, until my housekeeper finds a full time job, then we will go back to searching for an honest lady, which has taken up to 5 years at a time. I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE and that includes my mom, whom I respect and love dearly, but how i wish I felt better so I could do a better job.


I feel very weak because I complain a lot, which is a type of a cry for prayers and support, because I feel so alone physically in all this. I know I am being carried some, because if I used only my own strength, I'd be bedridden. I'm one step up from that, kind of like a zombie. lol. I complain because I don't handle all of this well at all. So many say I'm so strong, but I just see the things I am not getting done. Last night needed to go to the hospital again for pain and heart trouble. I am pushing myself past my limits every hour, then by 4 PM I a crash, not able to move or get either of us something to eat or drink. I take some meds and then by 9 or 10 I can help with a drink or soft food for Mom, and something light for myself. I just roll in pain when I crash, and I pray continually all day. It just feels like Satan trying to counteract everyone's prayers by creating another crisis every hour. Things that never happened before are hitting us all at once. Adds greatly to the hardship.


I AM thankful for all my blessings, but without strength to meet your needs each hour, all the luxury on earth is worthless. About every 3rd or 4th day I spend the day in a semi-conscious state. (part of lupus and diabetes). I told the Dr. my whole new set of symptoms, and he checked my records and said "Well, looks like you are having your first flare-up of Multiple Sclerosis." Oh great. As if I need that on top of everything else. It made me realize why so many local people, even church people, don't want to be our friends. I can see them saying "It's impossible for one person to have that many diseases!" I can hardly believe it myself, and I live with them, so how could others believe it? Did you know Job, in the Bible, only suffered for 5 months? That seems to barely compare to people who suffer for 50 years or more. I was hoping all this extra physical activity would help me lose weight and make me healthier, but I gained water/fluid weight due to heart failure/damage, and I'm getting worse every day, not more healthy. One good thing about this is that I don't even have the strength to worry about tomorrow, because I'm just concentrating on what needs to be done in the next hour, then just collapse instead of relax. Wow, I have spent almost 12 hours writing this in between keeping busy and crashing.


Thanks all for being patient with me. I think if I had even one local friend or a spouse to talk and help, maybe I wouldn't seek prayers and support so much online.

Bless you all,

Sheila



P.S. Please pray for a friend (Pia Go-Alano) and her father. They flew to China for her father's cancer treatment, because this one hospital has such a

high success rate. You can read her daily updates @ www.piasjournal.com .

Is anyone else on blogspot having trouble with spacing? I have now tried 5 times to move all the paragraphs closer to each other and save them that way, but when I "view blog", they are always far apart from each other again.



Thursday, 23 June 2011

THE WHEELCHAIR FIASCO



Today I have to lift a wheelchair in and out of the car 6 times and push Mom around, when I have had to use a walker with a seat for many years. I have been shaking with weakness most days this month. I'm sure praying to get through that. One minute at a time I guess. I just dread passing out when I'm out in public, because then I'll be in the hospital and Mom will be left helpless. The Dr. raised my pain medicine to 3x normal + some other pain meds in between the regular dosage, so my lupus is the worst it has ever been since my Dad died. I need to forget my medical care and just help Mom, it seems.

This will be Mom's first time using a wheelchair ever. She should have been crippled twice. She had polio, but was cured, then both legs were run over by a heavy gravel truck, which just crushed them, but again she was healed, miraculously. Crush injuries just do not heal like that naturally. That healing kept her on her feet almost until age 80, and she might get strong enough to get out of a wheelchair soon, if I can get her to eat to regain her strength! I sure needed the housekeeper for this today.Well here I go to pretend I'm superwoman! lol.

Blessings, Sheila

Thanks so much for your continued prayers my wonderful friends.

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Things are a bit tough here. Mom and I are both getting weaker, because Mom won't eat or drink more than a mouse eats. She can't regain her strength without eating. Also we found out the nurse comes 1/2 hour a WEEK and the housekeeper comes 2 hours a WEEK until she gets a summer job, then none at all. Time to go check Mom again. I don't even have time to find pictures for these posts lately. Will add some when I can. Now just making dozens of lists of different things Mom needs. Meds, care, foods, appointments every day for something or other, things to ask the Dr. for, things to have the housekeeper do, etc. Many things she needed done by now have not been done. I have not been able to keep up with it all. I'm so scared Mom will die due to my lack of perfect care. If the Lord takes her, so be it, but I don't want it to be caused by medical negligence or something I did or could not do.
Peace and prayers to you all,
Sheila






Monday, 20 June 2011

Hallelujah!

Hallelujah! One of the church leaders I called found me a very honest, reliable young lady who wants to be my housekeeper!! I know I'll have to teach her everything, but it's always been that way with housekeepers and I. Even if it's at the last moment, the Lord often does meet our needs. I am so grateful. I wish she could come help me today to get Mom home but she is writing her exams for school.

Sunday, 19 June 2011

Trials Are Growing Pains

Many people today have said they could not log into blogger. I'm having lots of troubles doing blogging too, so I am sending these by email, hoping they will show up. I can't add pictures to the posts until I can log in.
 
Just when all seems to be going right, challenges often come in multiple doses simultaneously. When those trials are not consequences of your disobedience, they are evidence that the Lord feels you are prepared to grow more
 
11 My son, despise not the chastening of the LORD; neither be weary of his correction: 12 For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.  (Proverbs 3:11–12).
 
He therefore gives you experiences that stimulate growth, understanding, and compassion, which polish you for your everlasting  benefit. To get you from where you are to where He wants you to be requires a lot of stretching, and that generally entails discomfort and pain. … God loves you perfectly. They would not require you to experience a moment more of difficulty than is absolutely needed for your personal benefit or for that of those you love.    
                      -Richard G. Scott
 
 I wish there was a way I could be completely positive right now and now scare you all away, but my body and spirit are just screaming out for help. It seems like because so many people are praying for me, Satan is trying to attack me to counteract any help I might feel. I do know my loving Savior is strengthening me, but right now it does not seem like even that amount of strength will be enough when Mom gets home and needs special care, when I am in such bad physical condition myself. Besides picking  Mom up, going from my car to her room 4 or 6 times to take her belongings out, then hauling it all into the house, and trying to get her out of hospital then into car, then get training from a special care nurse, tonight my brother from out of town called and said he is coming tomorrow. I have only seen him about 6 times in my whole adult life, so how am I going to entertain him and care for him after all that in 1 day? I am usually in tears by the time I get home from the hospital, so I will barely be able to move tomorrow. Thank goodness he said would not stay overnight this time, it will just be a few hours visit, so I don't have to set up a bed for him or get up early and make breakfast for him. I do want to see him, just wish he could have chosen a different day.
 
Even if these trials are meant to make us stronger, I don't feel like I have the strength for the changed life that we will have. Feels like I could die any time. Most often, the caretakers die before the patients do, because they get so exhausted and sick and can't take time to recover or even gain strength. The few Church members that came out to visit during the first week seem  to have gone back into hiding. Most church groups get impatient with people who don't heal in 1-3 weeks. I hope I can be only positive soon.
 
Tomorrow the hard work starts. I won't have to go to the hospital, but I will be on call 24 hours. I need a miracle.
Love you all, Sheila 
   

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