Hi there. I found a website that has tons of helps and links to other things on the web for people trying to live with pain.
Some of my favorites are:
1) Check out The Intractable Pain Patient's Handbook for Survival by Dr. Forrest Tennent. Download a copy here: http://www.ppmjournal.com/PDFs/PPM_Jan07_48-53_Kannerstein.pdf
2) Here's a wonderful resource to help the people who care about you. Surviving a Loved One's Chronic Pain by David Kannerstein, PhD and Sarah M. Whitman, MD. Download a copy here: http://www.pain-topics.org/pdf/IntractablePainSurvival.pdf
3) This page has 101 of these helps and other helps for people with severe chronic pain.